Hey, if it bothers you we'll take care of it if you need us to....I don't think any of us have a problem sticking up for you

Like I said...kinda like the Mafia

Ns38

Like I said...kinda like the Mafia

Well, I'm Italian...so I suppose it's official.

~Zoo

Yeah, you guys beating the guys up won't make the problem go away. Respect may a verb, but I demand it. And I think that you, Kendra, should do the same.

Yeah, you guys beating the guys up won't make the problem go away.

Really? I though beating the shit out of them would kind of teach them a lesson....pain is an excellent teacher. I believe some internal bleeding and some missing teeth could teach respect quite well. Of course, Sarah, has the non violent demanding method...which works okay....less fun, but it works.

~Zoo

Shaun~I'm not justifying or condoning there behavior, its wrong. But,why would they stop if she does nothing about it. I know and all of Kendra's friends know that she doesn't like it, but how the hell does that do any good if the offenders don't. If she starts demanding respect, and they don't stop, you press sexual harrassment charges on every single one that does it.
The way I view the entire thing is that It's kinda like feeling sorry for someone who's house gets robbed although they left all the doors unlocked, the windows open, and everything of value out in plain view.

Sarah- Hmm....I see what you mean. Kendra does need to start toughening up....she's the only one that can start ending it. (Sorry, Kendra...but it is true) Of course if backup is needed, I'm always in reserve. Pressing charges would get the point across too, and that might get them labelled as sex offenders...and do much more damage to them then beating them up ever could. I love it.

~Zoo

Really? I though beating the shit out of them would kind of teach them a lesson....pain is an excellent teacher

Pain will get you respect...and make you listen...But I think that is it.

Ns38

Shaun~ I'm glad that you see what I mean. Freshman year I pressed harassment (which you know isn't the same as sexual harrassment) charges on drew locke and brent poston and no one messes with me. Me and DeBruin can' fend off guys for her for the rest of her life.

Just so I wasn't clumped in the thing about beating guys up, I want to remind everyone that I was up for literally letting them know how she feels. If Kendra doesn't want to say anything because of her just not wanting to (whether it's fear i don't know, but that doesn't matter) then that's when I offer my services... I don't want to get in trouble for getting into a fight. That would be bad!

Same thing goes for all my other friends... I seem to get the point across at times. Then again, sometimes I'm too brutal as many people have witnessed.

To add a bit of an arguement to the open house thing... an open door and window does not mean it's fair and just to come in and job someone to prove a point. I tend to leave my doors unlocked but that doesn't mean it's anyone's right to steal from me just because I CHOSE to do so.

Everyone sees Kendra as a passive person. Obviously she doesn't want to hurt people, maybe even thinks it's alright to trust people, and it is not o.k. for someone to disrespect her just because she doesn't go around telling everyone that bothers her to go away.

I'm sorry, but in a small way this is as less her fault than anyone else's. Do you blame someone for being shot because they didn't have a bullet-proof vest on?

(Again, just the other side of the arguement... It's not fair to say that the weak deserve what they get)

Capt. over and out!

thanks every one. i know very well that some of it IS my fault, however, and I could stand up for myself more, but the truth is, I AM afraid . I know that is no excuse and that i should have learned by my past, but i am admitting that even when i do have the "guts" to say something, people DON"T take me seriously. And i do need your help-no so much in the violence department, but in the spreaking out department. You don't have to, and I certainly won't guilt you into it, but I would appreciate your help-even just a word of it. ( preferably not a four lettered one...shaun : )

Again, thank you for all your input : )
your friend,
KINJRUH

( preferably not a four lettered one...shaun : )

Awww...those are my favorites though.

Anytime you need help, I'm here for you....Sarah and Debruin can handle some and Costlow does have that harsh ass ripping way of talking to people, but everyone can use help...if you really want to "get the point across" I can be quite intimidating

~Zoo

Awww...those are my favorites though

let the guy say a four letter word...dont be mean......IE. cats, dogs, crap, hero, well you get the point.

Ns38

...four. Four is a 4 letter word. So is word. Isn't that nice?

I think I may be confused though, now. Here I am trying to help and what do you call me, Kendra? Well, I'd rather leave that out, but I really didn't appreciate it. I can deal with people making fun of me at times but name calling is not cool at all. I just thought I'd let you know how I felt about it, even if you don't care to know.

Capt. over and out!

I think I may be confused though, now. Here I am trying to help and what do you call me, Kendra? Well, I'd rather leave that out, but I really didn't appreciate it. I can deal with people making fun of me at times but name calling is not cool at all. I just thought I'd let you know how I felt about it, even if you don't care to know.

Ah, spurned is Costlow....look at how he fumes....

~Zoo

What the fuck?